When i was little my mom basicly hid me and my brother from our father so when i had my dotter and it didnt work out with her father i did evrey thing to try and get him to be a part of her life he has yet to evion meet her and it is entierly his own falt evrey situation is diffrent some.mothers keep fathers away from.there children other fathers dont want anything to do with there children focus on your kids the rest is meaningless
My cousin killed himself because his baby momma wouldn’t ever let him see his kids, she got away with it because he could only get the child support by traveling for work. Which made a normal visitation schedule impossible. He went home from court wrote a note and a buckshot for dinner.
My ex girlfriend tried to blackmail me, saying she would get an abortion if I didn't give her $10,000 cash. I prolonged the situation, and as soon as she had the baby…I took her to court and received full custody of my daughter. She received 2 hours of supervised visitation per month, and had to pay me child support. She never paid a penny. We made a deal that she would not pay anything, and not see the baby anymore. That was 24 years ago.
People project this same contempt onto men just for leaving their abusive exes too. Like if you couldn't work it out you must be a bad father or something.
I've got a somewhat unusual situation when it comes to my daughter. I dated her mother when she was less than 3 years old. Long story short things worked out with the kid better than the mom. Her father was non-existent, her mother… Well the girl's grandparents did most of the raising which frankly parts of her life were horror movie bad. I want her to have at least one safe place she could run to so I stuck around. Problem was I had no legal right to her and no stand to change that (would have been very different if I had) i spent the next 15 years playing their damn games so I didn't lose total contact. just to punish HER I sometimes go months without any contact at all.
The day she turned 18 I made clear I was done with the BS games and when she called begging for help I drove the 10 hours to reach her, load her and everything she own (wasn't much, didn't even fill the back seat) and took her home with me. I took care of her the next 3 years myself. I didn't realize until that point just how bad the damage the did was, she will like struggle with certain things her entire life.
To this day her mother still says "you're not her father" every single time it comes up. But she still calls me daddy and has for about 15 years, and I'm the ONLY parent her husband will even acknowledge at all. It's enough, that's all I really need to hear.
But ya, that was a long ass 15 years. Still at it of course, it's just a lot easier now.
I can safely say my ex sister in law does everything in her power to keep my niece away from her father. She’s gone as far as to file false stalking and harassment charges to keep her away from him.
In general, the reason a father is denied access to his children is because the father has done something to deserve being denied access to see his children. In general, not every single one, but far away that is the standard. You need to learn how to read statistics.
I gave my ex 2/3rds of all my income and had the same visitations as when I gave her nothing which is once a month and usually doesn't bring him when I ask. I don't pick him up from her place anymore as she always has some B.S. going on like being drunk in the afternoon
I'm so thankful that my dad fought in court to see me and my brother after him and my mum divorced. To anyone going through that situation currently, stay strong, better days will come.
And all she had to do was google the word noncustodial parent and or read the definition in the custody agreement, but then she couldn’t play narcissistic victim
Seriously the girl spewing all of this dumb stuff about the unfit father crap, looks like she gets less action than some of my ugliest friends, like…. There's still able to pull several several girls…. Well she looks like she can't get one guy
I thought we was done with this man and women shit. But hey look at this now there is still a law that automatically give the mom "women" custody of the child just because of the gender.
99 out 100 mothers use their children to punish the father. They use the children to gain money power sympathy and use them to inflate their ego while abusing the father and neglecting the children. (yes keeping your children from their father is tantamount to torture!)
Can confirm, mother kept me from my dad till I was almost 12 when he finally got the courts to grant him joint custody. parental alienation Definately exists. The shear amount of BS my mother tried to spoon feed me to alienate me from my father is no joke.
Someone didn't get her hostage… I mean child support money that month. Sometimes judges have ego's and the father can prove that the mother is unfit, but the judge can STILL give the mother 100% custody. Mothers have "deleted" their children in these cases and they judge will say they made the "right" judgement. Google it.
My ex husband loved using the excuse that i wouldn't let him see our daughter which was completely bullshit. He was just not wanting to see her HOWEVER that doesnt mean moms dont use their kids as ploys. However However sometimes a mom does need to protect their kids from their fathers… However However However some dads need to protect their kids from their moms as well…
"If the court doesn't grant you custody it literally means you're an unfit father."
No that's what it SHOULD mean but that's not always the case. Courts always grant custody in favor of the mother regardless of who is actually the most fit to parent.
My cousin's ex-wife, smoked while pregnant resulting in their son being born with an underdeveloped lung and barely breathing, she kept dumping the kid at my aunt's house because she didn't want her new boyfriend to know she had kids. I say kids, plural because we found out she also had 3 other children from previous relationships before she met my cousin and did the same thing to him where he did not know she had kids until after she had his baby. She was collecting child support from four different baby daddies for children she never even spends any time with. She wanted nothing to do with her kids and doesn't give a crap that they all have health problems because she smoked and drank while pregnant. And the courts still gave her custody. My cousin was fighting with the courts to get sole custody of his son because he was the fit parent who was actually taking care of him anyway.
In some cases she's absolutely right. My son's biological father has never been a part of his life because he wanted nothing to do with him. My ex rightfully has custody and gets child support from him.
I'd be willing to bet that who is a more fit parent is more of a 50/50 split between the mother and the father but because of sexism the mother is automatically assumed to be more fit way more often and faces no consequences compared to an unfit father.
There's also a thing with assuming a biological parent is going to be more fit which also isn't always the case. Both parents could be terrible, some times a child is actually better off in foster care.
Anytime we would call to talk to the girls, (she would take their phones away if they had bad grades, and would not give them back till report cards came out), so we had to call her she would always say We are eating at the dinner table as a family. We are shopping, as a family We are at the movies, as a family We are doing family game night And so forth…. The the girls would ask if daddy called, and she would say no… the never knew till we told them when they finally asked why we neber called.
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When i was little my mom basicly hid me and my brother from our father so when i had my dotter and it didnt work out with her father i did evrey thing to try and get him to be a part of her life he has yet to evion meet her and it is entierly his own falt evrey situation is diffrent some.mothers keep fathers away from.there children other fathers dont want anything to do with there children focus on your kids the rest is meaningless
My cousin killed himself because his baby momma wouldn’t ever let him see his kids, she got away with it because he could only get the child support by traveling for work. Which made a normal visitation schedule impossible. He went home from court wrote a note and a buckshot for dinner.
I hate chicks like this, I hope whoever her bd is takes her to court and gets sole custody
Dude I feel that in My soul. Tell your husband he'd not alone.
My ex girlfriend tried to blackmail me, saying she would get an abortion if I didn't give her $10,000 cash. I prolonged the situation, and as soon as she had the baby…I took her to court and received full custody of my daughter. She received 2 hours of supervised visitation per month, and had to pay me child support. She never paid a penny. We made a deal that she would not pay anything, and not see the baby anymore. That was 24 years ago.
Facts
Her: "In 2024…."
Me: " B*** it's 2023, at least get the year right"
My mom took me halfway across the country without consulting my dad (her ex), and i feel like i could've had a more stable life with him
People project this same contempt onto men just for leaving their abusive exes too. Like if you couldn't work it out you must be a bad father or something.
The type of woman to give the man sole custody and then cry about no child support 😂
I love how fired up you are!
Thank you for this. So much toxicity out there that people actually think it’s ok 🔥
She couldn't unload her kids on the ex so she could go on that sloot trip with her girlfriends.
I've got a somewhat unusual situation when it comes to my daughter. I dated her mother when she was less than 3 years old. Long story short things worked out with the kid better than the mom. Her father was non-existent, her mother… Well the girl's grandparents did most of the raising which frankly parts of her life were horror movie bad. I want her to have at least one safe place she could run to so I stuck around. Problem was I had no legal right to her and no stand to change that (would have been very different if I had) i spent the next 15 years playing their damn games so I didn't lose total contact. just to punish HER I sometimes go months without any contact at all.
The day she turned 18 I made clear I was done with the BS games and when she called begging for help I drove the 10 hours to reach her, load her and everything she own (wasn't much, didn't even fill the back seat) and took her home with me. I took care of her the next 3 years myself. I didn't realize until that point just how bad the damage the did was, she will like struggle with certain things her entire life.
To this day her mother still says "you're not her father" every single time it comes up. But she still calls me daddy and has for about 15 years, and I'm the ONLY parent her husband will even acknowledge at all. It's enough, that's all I really need to hear.
But ya, that was a long ass 15 years. Still at it of course, it's just a lot easier now.
You said everything I have wanted to say for years
I can safely say my ex sister in law does everything in her power to keep my niece away from her father. She’s gone as far as to file false stalking and harassment charges to keep her away from him.
Well no , women use kids to get back at kids, as for custodian rights 95% of courts automatically gets custody.
It's a female like this that destroys this species
Hmmm I’m more interested in your story though lol
This lady is evil, delusional, and can go ingest a satchel of Richards.
In general, the reason a father is denied access to his children is because the father has done something to deserve being denied access to see his children. In general, not every single one, but far away that is the standard. You need to learn how to read statistics.
I gave my ex 2/3rds of all my income and had the same visitations as when I gave her nothing which is once a month and usually doesn't bring him when I ask. I don't pick him up from her place anymore as she always has some B.S. going on like being drunk in the afternoon
Whoa, i think this might the only time dadvocate has gotten angry in one of her videos
I'm so thankful that my dad fought in court to see me and my brother after him and my mum divorced. To anyone going through that situation currently, stay strong, better days will come.
Purely Sexist… And she thinks she is in the right 😅
Sad world we live in
And all she had to do was google the word noncustodial parent and or read the definition in the custody agreement, but then she couldn’t play narcissistic victim
All I can ever think with these kinds of stories is "man poor kid"
In 2024 can we automatically grant both parents joint custody.
Pheewwww… The screaming started even before I finished the sentence.
Seriously the girl spewing all of this dumb stuff about the unfit father crap, looks like she gets less action than some of my ugliest friends, like…. There's still able to pull several several girls…. Well she looks like she can't get one guy
2,633 days of my kids being criminally abused by their mother & summit county ohio.
I thought we was done with this man and women shit. But hey look at this now there is still a law that automatically give the mom "women" custody of the child just because of the gender.
Frankly, a mother who uses her children to punish their father is the parent who is unfit.
99 out 100 mothers use their children to punish the father.
They use the children to gain money power sympathy and use them to inflate their ego while abusing the father and neglecting the children. (yes keeping your children from their father is tantamount to torture!)
8 years. 8 years of trying to see my kid more, children's services finally agreed my kid should be with me and not mum
My story is not unique
Thank you to the lady who made this vid
Can confirm, mother kept me from my dad till I was almost 12 when he finally got the courts to grant him joint custody. parental alienation Definately exists. The shear amount of BS my mother tried to spoon feed me to alienate me from my father is no joke.
Someone didn't get her hostage… I mean child support money that month. Sometimes judges have ego's and the father can prove that the mother is unfit, but the judge can STILL give the mother 100% custody. Mothers have "deleted" their children in these cases and they judge will say they made the "right" judgement. Google it.
My ex husband loved using the excuse that i wouldn't let him see our daughter which was completely bullshit. He was just not wanting to see her HOWEVER that doesnt mean moms dont use their kids as ploys. However However sometimes a mom does need to protect their kids from their fathers… However However However some dads need to protect their kids from their moms as well…
How confidently she says “it’s 2024” makes whatever she has to say invalid like, it’s literally not
I went over 2 years before she started to let me see my kids. Now 1 lives with me and rhe other had to move out of her house to get away from her.😅😊
"If the court doesn't grant you custody it literally means you're an unfit father."
No that's what it SHOULD mean but that's not always the case. Courts always grant custody in favor of the mother regardless of who is actually the most fit to parent.
My cousin's ex-wife, smoked while pregnant resulting in their son being born with an underdeveloped lung and barely breathing, she kept dumping the kid at my aunt's house because she didn't want her new boyfriend to know she had kids. I say kids, plural because we found out she also had 3 other children from previous relationships before she met my cousin and did the same thing to him where he did not know she had kids until after she had his baby. She was collecting child support from four different baby daddies for children she never even spends any time with. She wanted nothing to do with her kids and doesn't give a crap that they all have health problems because she smoked and drank while pregnant. And the courts still gave her custody. My cousin was fighting with the courts to get sole custody of his son because he was the fit parent who was actually taking care of him anyway.
In some cases she's absolutely right. My son's biological father has never been a part of his life because he wanted nothing to do with him. My ex rightfully has custody and gets child support from him.
I'd be willing to bet that who is a more fit parent is more of a 50/50 split between the mother and the father but because of sexism the mother is automatically assumed to be more fit way more often and faces no consequences compared to an unfit father.
There's also a thing with assuming a biological parent is going to be more fit which also isn't always the case. Both parents could be terrible, some times a child is actually better off in foster care.
Anytime we would call to talk to the girls, (she would take their phones away if they had bad grades, and would not give them back till report cards came out), so we had to call her she would always say
We are eating at the dinner table as a family.
We are shopping, as a family
We are at the movies, as a family
We are doing family game night
And so forth….
The the girls would ask if daddy called, and she would say no… the never knew till we told them when they finally asked why we neber called.
Mens feelings are never taken into consideration. Just told to suck it up, and keep going on the wheel of pain ie life.